Pride and Penetration

Recently at my school, we had an open forum about sex. It was fun, sexy, and truly informative. Through the laughs and gasps, however, there was one piece of information I was not aware of that I feel should be discussed more then it is. 

One night stands, random hookups, no-strings-attached sex, being 'rocked'-- In college these incidents are usually coupled with Thirsty Thursday. But before you get into the sack, there's something both genders should know:

While under the influence, you cannot drive a car, you cannot get a tattoo and you cannot consent to sex. Being intoxicated revokes the right to make contract-- verbal or written. This fact could land either party in jail and on the national sex offenders registry.

I don't mean to be a Debbie Downer. I support any personal sexual decision that doesn't harm others. I just ask my readers to be careful and make absolutely sure your fuck buddy is completely comfortable in the situation. Some things to look out for:

-If you're trying to convince a potential partner to drink more because you think your chances will rise--that's not okay!

-If your partner is having trouble standing--not okay...

-If you're significantly more sober then the other party--please, just don't do it.

These may seem like common sense, but this knowledge may go out the window with every sip you take. And this isn't just for one sex. Guys have it harder in this subject because the world looks at vagina as vagina. They are expected to want sex no matter what. So, is it possible to take advantage of a man?

The answer is yes.

So till next time, please think about what you do and be safe!




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